How to Approach

1. Do your research. Obtain all important information about your Dominant of interest, before you contact Them. (Rates, style of Domination, services offered, boundaries, payment methods, etc.)

2. Tribute. Tributes let Us know that you are serious about your inquiry. Talking to you about your kinks and fantasies takes energy. A sub who shows respect for their Dominant by compensating for Their time is looked highly upon.

3. Contact. Once you decide that you like the Dominant, are able to afford Their rates, and can adhere to all safety/screening processes, you may contact Them. Provide specifics when contacting; what exactly are you looking for? A “hey” will quickly get discarded.

4. Be patient. Dominants have lives outside of Their careers, not to mention the huge amount of work Our careers entail. We are not here to be your online partners, your therapists, nor do We owe you any of Our time. Respectful approaches with tributes will get noticed, they may not get immediate replies. Wait 24 hours before contacting again.